Comments on: Patient People Are Outliers and Their Advantage is Insane https://fourpillarfreedom.com/patient-people-are-outliers-and-their-advantage-is-insane/ Sharing insights on how to grow wealth and gain freedom. Mon, 21 Oct 2019 20:37:33 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.6.1 By: Zach @ Four Pillar Freedom https://fourpillarfreedom.com/patient-people-are-outliers-and-their-advantage-is-insane/#comment-2372 Sun, 28 Jan 2018 14:39:21 +0000 https://fourpillarfreedom.com/?p=27905#comment-2372 In reply to Steveark.

Haha interesting point of view on running against yourself. Perhaps you can find some people in your area who can offer you some competition in running!

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By: Steveark https://fourpillarfreedom.com/patient-people-are-outliers-and-their-advantage-is-insane/#comment-2353 Sat, 27 Jan 2018 18:53:36 +0000 https://fourpillarfreedom.com/?p=27905#comment-2353 Great post, being a boring guy actually has a pay out! Wish I had known that in high school, I’d have felt so much better about myself. As a runner I really need to find someone to race against other than yesterday me because I’m getting slower as I get older and younger me is way faster than real me. Maybe I should be racing against tomorrow me, that might work.

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By: Melanie https://fourpillarfreedom.com/patient-people-are-outliers-and-their-advantage-is-insane/#comment-2093 Mon, 15 Jan 2018 17:09:23 +0000 https://fourpillarfreedom.com/?p=27905#comment-2093 So I guess the old saying “patience is a virtue” really has some merit! You should also read the book grit by Angela Duckworth… it discusses a lot of these concepts!

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By: Zach @ Four Pillar Freedom https://fourpillarfreedom.com/patient-people-are-outliers-and-their-advantage-is-insane/#comment-2082 Sun, 14 Jan 2018 13:04:25 +0000 https://fourpillarfreedom.com/?p=27905#comment-2082 In reply to fin$avvypanda @ finsavvypanda.com.

Thanks so much, I’m glad you liked it! 🙂

I love that Eddie Cantor quote as well because it’s so true. Overnight success is a myth that too many of us believe is real. It’s simply not. We have a tendency to glorify the results and not the process, without realizing that the process is 99% of the journey.

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By: fin$avvypanda @ finsavvypanda.com https://fourpillarfreedom.com/patient-people-are-outliers-and-their-advantage-is-insane/#comment-2074 Fri, 12 Jan 2018 23:25:34 +0000 https://fourpillarfreedom.com/?p=27905#comment-2074 Zach, this was an AMAZING post!

I loved it so so much! It definitely takes patience as well as perseverance to get what you want. I also think it’s driven by passion too (like you said, be motivated intrinsically). If you have a true passion for what you’re trying to achieve, you will have the patience and perseverance!

What Big Sean said is very similar to Eddie Cantor’s quote “it takes 20 years to make an overnight success.”

I personally tend to ignore the fad of setting goals on Jan 1st. It’s important to work on your goals despite what day it is. I really believe setting a benchmark date of Jan 1st, and hoping to accomplish something by Dec 31st, will set a lot of people off because like you said, people end up failing. Studies show that most people end up giving up within 2 months from Jan.

Overall, this was beautifully written. Your posts are truly amazing and inspiring! With such quality content, I can tell you’re already killing it with your blog 😉

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By: Zach @ Four Pillar Freedom https://fourpillarfreedom.com/patient-people-are-outliers-and-their-advantage-is-insane/#comment-2044 Fri, 12 Jan 2018 14:42:21 +0000 https://fourpillarfreedom.com/?p=27905#comment-2044 In reply to Matt @ Spills Spot.

Couldn’t agree more, Matt! 🙂

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By: Matt @ Spills Spot https://fourpillarfreedom.com/patient-people-are-outliers-and-their-advantage-is-insane/#comment-2024 Tue, 09 Jan 2018 19:04:20 +0000 https://fourpillarfreedom.com/?p=27905#comment-2024 Great post Zach, you’re spot on that patience and delayed gratification are huge keys to separating yourself from the pack. The overnight success might be a more buzzy headline, but the grit and consistency over a long period of time is a much better story.

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By: Zach @ Four Pillar Freedom https://fourpillarfreedom.com/patient-people-are-outliers-and-their-advantage-is-insane/#comment-2019 Tue, 09 Jan 2018 14:04:44 +0000 https://fourpillarfreedom.com/?p=27905#comment-2019 In reply to Mike @ Balanced Dividends.

I like that simple approach and I agree with you – the more we view progress as “never-ending” the more we focus on growth over time instead of hitting arbitrary goals. The people who are patient and willing to work consistently each day towards a specific objective win over the long-haul. Just so happens that very people do so.

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By: Zach @ Four Pillar Freedom https://fourpillarfreedom.com/patient-people-are-outliers-and-their-advantage-is-insane/#comment-2013 Tue, 09 Jan 2018 13:53:35 +0000 https://fourpillarfreedom.com/?p=27905#comment-2013 In reply to Lily | The Frugal Gene.

Patience is particularly difficult to cultivate in the blogging world because most blogs receive VERY little traffic in the first 3-6 months, which makes most new bloggers quit entirely. The trick is to play the long game, ignore the daily traffic fluctuations, and consistently write about stuff you find interesting. Over time, the readers will come. I like that – “it wasn’t the traffic that mattered but my mental state in it” – I think that captures this idea nicely 🙂

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By: Zach @ Four Pillar Freedom https://fourpillarfreedom.com/patient-people-are-outliers-and-their-advantage-is-insane/#comment-2012 Tue, 09 Jan 2018 13:51:33 +0000 https://fourpillarfreedom.com/?p=27905#comment-2012 In reply to SMM.

Exactly! Thanks SMM 🙂

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